The #1 Relationship Killer (It’s Not What You Think)

📌 Most relationships don’t fail because of a lack of love. They fail because of misalignment.

That’s a bold statement. But it’s also the truth.

Couples break up all the time even though they love each other. Relationships end in frustration, not because the feelings weren’t real, but because the fundamentals weren’t aligned.

And the worst part? Most people don’t realize it until it’s too late.

Why Love Isn’t Enough (And Never Was)

🔥 Love is powerful—but it’s not a strategy.

Here’s the harsh reality: You can love someone deeply and still be fundamentally misaligned.

📌 You can have different long-term goals.
📌 You can prioritize different things in your day-to-day life.
📌 You can have mismatched communication styles, emotional needs, or definitions of commitment.

And when that happens, the relationship isn’t “bad.” It just starts to feel harder than it should be.

🚨 That’s the invisible stress that slowly erodes relationships.

You don’t wake up one day and suddenly feel disconnected. It happens gradually—over weeks, months, and years—through a thousand small misalignments.

The Slow Drift: How Misalignment Happens

Most relationships don’t end in explosions. They end in silent drift.

✅ You stop having conversations about what truly matters.
✅ You assume you’re on the same page—but you’re not.
✅ You fight about surface-level issues while the real problem remains hidden.

💡 Think about this: Have you ever had a fight where you realized later, “We weren’t even arguing about the same thing”?

That’s misalignment in action.

Your emotions were real. The frustration was real. But the root issue wasn’t what you thought it was.

So how do you stop the drift before it’s too late?

The Fix: Start Measuring Alignment, Not Just Love

If your finances were struggling, you’d check your bank account.
If your health was off, you’d track your symptoms.

So why wouldn’t you measure your relationship health?

📌 That’s exactly what the Total Difference Score (TDS) does.

Instead of relying on feelings alone, TDS helps couples measure, track, and improve their alignment—before problems spiral out of control.

🚀 Here’s how it works:
✅ Step 1: Take the Prioritize Us Test to discover your TDS – Get a measurable score of your relationship alignment.
✅ Step 2: Identify Your Gaps – See where you and your partner are misaligned (before conflict escalates).
✅ Step 3: Create an Action Plan – Strengthen your relationship with intentional micro-adjustments.

💡 It’s like having a relationship dashboard—so you always know where you stand and how to improve.

Final Thought: Love is the Fuel. Alignment is the Map.

Think of your relationship like a road trip. Love is the gas in the tank—but if you and your partner are using different maps, you’re going to get lost.

💡 You don’t need more love. You need more alignment.

That’s what Prioritize Us is all about. And that’s what The Prioritize Us Playbook will help you do.